Running on Empty No More

Transform Your Relationships with Your Partner, Your Parents & Your Children
By Jonice Webb
Concepts
  • CEN (Childhood Emotional Neglect)
    A pattern in which a parent fails to respond adequately to a child's emotional needs, leaving the adult with difficulty identifying, expressing, and valuing their own emotions.
  • Alexithymia
    A reduced ability to identify and describe one's own feelings, a common result of CEN that creates distance in adult relationships.
  • Counter-Dependency
    A CEN-driven pattern of compulsive self-reliance in which a person resists receiving help or emotional support from others.
  • Fatal Flaw
    The deep, often unconscious belief held by many CEN adults that something is fundamentally wrong with them, driving shame and self-concealment in relationships.
  • Generational Cycle
    The process by which parents who experienced CEN unintentionally pass emotional neglect to their own children, and how to interrupt that pattern.
Chapters
  • Acknowledgments
  • Introduction
  • Part 1. CEN and Your Relationship
  • Chapter 1. The CEN Relationship - A Portrait
  • Chapter 2. Did CEN Affect Your Choice of Partner?
  • Chapter 3. The Effects of CEN on Your Relationship
  • Chapter 4. How to Talk to Your Partner about CEN
  • Chapter 5. How to Repair Your CEN Relationship
  • Part 2. Your CEN Parents
  • Chapter 6. The Emotionally Neglectful Family All Grown Up
  • Chapter 7. How CEN Affects Your Relationship with Your Parents
  • Chapter 8. Protect Yourself - Boundaries and Self-Care
  • Chapter 9. Talking with Your Parents about CEN
  • Part 3. Your Children
  • Chapter 10. The Emotionally Neglected Child, A Portrait
  • Chapter 11. The Feelings of the CEN Parent
  • Chapter 12. How CEN Has Affected Your Parenting
  • Chapter 13. Changing Your Parenting Style
  • Chapter 14. Should You Talk with Your Child about CEN? And How to Do It
  • Chapter 15. Portrait of Two Healing Families
  • Epilogue
  • About the Author
  • References
  • Resources