Running on Empty No More
Transform Your Relationships with Your Partner, Your Parents & Your Children
- CEN (Childhood Emotional Neglect)
- A pattern in which a parent fails to respond adequately to a child's emotional needs, leaving the adult with difficulty identifying, expressing, and valuing their own emotions.
- Alexithymia
- A reduced ability to identify and describe one's own feelings, a common result of CEN that creates distance in adult relationships.
- Counter-Dependency
- A CEN-driven pattern of compulsive self-reliance in which a person resists receiving help or emotional support from others.
- Fatal Flaw
- The deep, often unconscious belief held by many CEN adults that something is fundamentally wrong with them, driving shame and self-concealment in relationships.
- Generational Cycle
- The process by which parents who experienced CEN unintentionally pass emotional neglect to their own children, and how to interrupt that pattern.
- Acknowledgments
- Introduction
- Part 1. CEN and Your Relationship
- Chapter 1. The CEN Relationship - A Portrait
- Chapter 2. Did CEN Affect Your Choice of Partner?
- Chapter 3. The Effects of CEN on Your Relationship
- Chapter 4. How to Talk to Your Partner about CEN
- Chapter 5. How to Repair Your CEN Relationship
- Part 2. Your CEN Parents
- Chapter 6. The Emotionally Neglectful Family All Grown Up
- Chapter 7. How CEN Affects Your Relationship with Your Parents
- Chapter 8. Protect Yourself - Boundaries and Self-Care
- Chapter 9. Talking with Your Parents about CEN
- Part 3. Your Children
- Chapter 10. The Emotionally Neglected Child, A Portrait
- Chapter 11. The Feelings of the CEN Parent
- Chapter 12. How CEN Has Affected Your Parenting
- Chapter 13. Changing Your Parenting Style
- Chapter 14. Should You Talk with Your Child about CEN? And How to Do It
- Chapter 15. Portrait of Two Healing Families
- Epilogue
- About the Author
- References
- Resources
- Childhood Emotional Neglect, CEN, Emotional Awareness, Self-Knowledge, Conflict Avoidance, Feeling Lonely, Assertiveness, Neglected Parent, Struggling Parent, Self-Involved Parent, Boundaries, Self-Care, Counter Dependency, Emptiness, Fatal Flaw, Guilt, Shame, Blame, Alexithymia